Heh, I started this one with no idea where it was going to go. Anyway, here it is.
Something inspired by what you see in this photo by Youandwhosearmy.- Mode of creation open- ( 3 pts)

Three hundred and ninety-nine dollars. Spouse's signature not needed. I know quite a few guys who would have gone for that. Jeff paid his lawyer over two grand. That was before the divorce was finalized, so I don't know what it wound up being. Or what she took him for, either. Jeff was my friend, we were in the Army together. I didn't know his wife, not really. Everything I knew about her, I learned from his complaining. I could tell that theirs was the kind of relationship that wasn't healthy in any way, shape, or form. They drove each other absolutely nuts. He drank a lot, and he was a pretty poor drunk, too. It irked him that she would purposely dress trashy when they went to Wal-Mart, because she knew it would piss him off. So he drank some more.
Jeff was my friend, but that doesn't mean he knew how to successfully deal with conflict.
They stayed married through our deployment to Iraq, but they were separated. To finalize the divorce would have been to take a nearly 50% pay cut. In the military, everyone makes their "Base Pay." That usually ammounts to peanuts. But married soldiers get a housing allowance, or single soldiers who managed to get authorized to live off post. In combination with other alottments and allowances and stipends, the pay isn't so bad, so long as you know how to get it. So, they stayed "together." Although Jeff had a girlfriend and his wife was living with some guy in the mainland.
Hey, if you don't fuck the system, the system gonna fuck you.
Other guys weren't so fortunate as poor Jeff. Yeah, I know, it's pretty twisted to say that Jeff was fortunate. In reality he wasn't, but relatively, he was. Other guys still loved their wives. Wives who slept around while they were gone. Wives who spent all their money, left them with nothing, and then divorced them when they came home. Yeah, Jeff was lucky. His wife didn't give him an STD or convince him to sign the birth certificate on her illegitimate child. I'm not saying these guys were perfect, either. Half of them would screw around on their wives, if given a chance. More than half drank too much. And they didn't exactly pick winners, when they proposed to their wives. Then again, neither did their wives when they said yes.
Life's a bitch. You'd better learn to make sound decisions.
I could hear them talking on the phones. The phone booths in Iraq are not very private. If you're lucky, there's a board between you and the next guy. So when someone got in a fight with his wife or girlfriend, everybody knew. It wasn't pretty. Usually they would start out normally. "Hey baby, how are you doing? I miss you." Then their conversation would turn to a whisper. A whisper that would grow in intensity, until the poor guy didn't care about who heard anymore. How can you care who overhears when youre wife tells you she's pregnant, and you haven't been home in over a year? Oh, and she drained your bank account to buy her boyfriend a car, or a tv, or whatever. And that he's living in your house and sleeping in your bed? And fucking your wife?
And people wonder why the suicide rate is so high among returning soldiers.
The things they carry with them. Not just the heavy burden laid on us by war, but also by life. It takes broad shoulders to carry that weight. You see them every day, you know. Well, you don't know. You pass them on the street, not knowing. How could you? It is a burden too broad and vague for utterances.
Yet, you never forget.
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